What Women Really Want..
Dear Men,
Let me lay my cards on the table from the start, we girls know we're complicated. But we also know that you like a challenge. You actually like us because we're challenging, if we were simple you would just move onto the next complicated girl
This is what women actually want, but most won't actually ask for-
Pick Me Up
Yes - the bus is right outside my door and it's 30 minutes out of your way but it just makes us feel like we're special when you do stuff like that…. without complaining.
Be Nice To My Mum And Get On With My Extremely Annoying little Brother and sister and the older one too..
I know she freaks you out and force feeds you to the point of discomfort but I appreciate it so much when you go for round 3 of her pavlova even though you were attempting to be all Paleo. As for my geek brother who you want to hit 10 minutes in, I notice and appreciate every time you resist rolling your eyes, or hitting him or just leaving...
Just Once I Would Love If You Would Open The Car Door For Me
I know I have a hand and I know I am capable of opening it myself but it's just nice when/if you would do that.
Offer To Buy My Friends A Drink When We're Out.
Not a river of alcohol is expected but if we're out and you're going to the bar, if you ask Joanna (who I know you hate) what's she having it makes me so proud - because you're better than most guys by doing that. I know she will always want more.. but just the 1 makes me happy.
Be Slightly Psychic
We find it hard to put our feelings into actual words but if we say we're 'fine', we're not fine at all. It could be anything; that you ignored me last week for 5 hours but I'm only just remembering now, to the fact that I had a dream where you were shady and I'm freaked out by it.
Keep Your Porn Fetish A Secret From Me
I know you have PornHub, Redtube, and Youporn in regular rotation but just at least close the laptop when I'm there and pretend you don't know what they are… for me.
Lend Me Your Jacket
If I'm freezing to the point of being completely blue because I came out in bare legs, and a body con dress, know I dressed like that because it looked good. It's not my fault it's pissing rain and baltic. By lending me your jacket I feel warmer which immediately lifts my mood. I also feel taken care of which is lovely.
Bad things happen when girls get cold...
Get Me A Present On My Birthday
None of this please..
Send Us Random Messages During The Day
I know you think a text message should have a purpose but I just want to hear from you all the time. Even a 'Hi' and a wink face, ideally every 2 hours, makes me feel looked out for, which is a very warm kind of feeling indeed. I'd like to be like this guy, even though you don't say it...
