Some people are natural flirts, born to charm. Some however aren't as fortunate, but if you're not quite so gifted don't think that you can't ascend to new romantic heights. With some simple tips and a bit of common sense, you can be up there with the best of 'em.
1. Confidence... Not Arrogance
You don’t want any mixed messages here; you’re attracted to them and are doing something about it. There’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance though, so make sure you don’t come across as a dick.
2. Play it cool
On the other hand, you don’t wanna come across as too keen, you need to leave a little bit of mystery. Be confident, but be cool.
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3. Eye contact
Look them right in the eyes and let them know you’re giving them 100% of your attention, it’s them you’re interested in and no one else. DO NOT, I repeat, do not stare for too long..
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4. Smile
Because frowning makes you look like a complete moron...
5. Let them talk
They certainly are! Generally people are most at ease when they’re talking about themselves, so give them an opportunity to do so. This will almost certainly lead to a sustained period of boredom, but who cares if you manage to seal the deal.
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6. Lots Of Compliments
Complimenting someone lets them know you're are interested... Giving someone too many compliments makes you come across like a strange stalker, this look is to be avoided at all costs...
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7. Physical contact
8. Body language Is Key
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Actions speak louder than words and the manner in which you hold yourself can make all the difference. Proximity is also important, the closer you are, the closer you are.
9. Don’t be scared of rejection
This one is about dusting yourself off and moving on the the next one
10. Leave them wanting more
Eventually you'll have to leave their company but you'll never want to leave their thoughts. The world runs on supply and demand, so take control of the supplies.
