Sometimes you don't realise how much someone sucks until you end up in a relationship with them. On the outside they seem cool, popular, totally fun and unbelievably hot. Then one day she sets her sights on you. A good-looking nice guy who she believes she needs: that's what all the Chick Flicks have taught her. Then you learn who she really is: a hot, spoilt, manipulative bitch. Time to get out while you can my friend... Before it's to late.
Drama drama drama.
She is the biggest drama queen. She starts fights with your ex, her ex, her friends, her parents, professors, basically anyone who 'crosses her', i.e. doesn't do things her way.
She is unfaithful.
She cheats on you constantly. Any night she's out without you she pulls some other dude and might even go home with him. She apologizes after and begs you to take her back, that she'll change, only for her to turn around and do it again.
She disrespects you.
She insults you in front of her friends and your friends. She has no confidence in your talents and makes fun of your goals. She doesn't get along with your family. She especially hates your mom and is constantly bringing up how much she thinks she sucks.
Takes you for granted.
Seeing as you've always put up with her crap she assumes you always will so doesn't change her behaviour. She forgets all your important dates; exam dates, family events, even your birthday.
She's a hypocrite.
She gets really pissed at you when you have other plans with other people. But when she makes plans with her friends on a night you were supposed to hang out with each other she gets annoyed when you're upset.
She doesn't listen to you.
She never asks how you are or how your classes are going. She doesn't know if you've any special dietary requirements or allergies. She couldn't tell you what your favourite movie or TV show or book is because she doesn't pay attention or listen.
She never offers to pay.
Even though she says she's all for women's liberation and no more submission to men she feels it's still the man's duty to treat his girl like a princess by paying for everything - even if she earns more money - and buying meaningful presents - even though you've received vouchers for your birthday.
She ignores you.
When she wants to be single she's single, without so much as a heads up. She ignores your texts and calls but calls you when she's drunk and out with her girlfriends all night looking for sex.
She thinks you're an idiot.
Which to be fair you probably are if you're dating her. She has no confidence in your intelligence or your life goals. She enjoys putting down your dreams, maybe it makes her feel like hers are more attainable that way.
She has no self respect.
She dresses all slutty and is a very messy drunk but thinks that that's what makes her really sexy - It doesn't by the way. She's constantly trying to make you jealous and demanding you to fight for her. When you're thinking 'We're no longer in the Middle Ages. I do not need to duel for your honour.'
She's manipulative.
She uses sex as a weapon and a treat: you get some if you do what she wants and its Fort Knox down there when she doesn't get her way. She cries and gets angry to make sure you always do what she wants. She's exhausting and upsetting to be around. You deserve better than that. Don't put up with it. You're constantly defending her behaviour - you keep saying to your friends 'She's really hot though'... That's pathetic, you clearly have no self-esteem. You're letting her treat you this way. Stick up for yourself and find someone who's both hot and a nice person. They're are out there!
