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15 Thoughts Every Girl Has After The First Date...

You're just back from your first date with a new fella and, whether things went well or badly, he will be playing on your mind. Here are a few of the thoughts every girl has after a first date.

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  1. Should I have invited him in for a drink?

    Save it for date 3.

  2. I wonder if he thought I was weird

    If he did, he's not the man for you.

  3. Thank fuck my underwear wasn't too uncomfortable

    Lacy pants are the devil's underwear.

  4. Should I have gone home with him?

    No. Refer to number 1.

  5. Now I'm going to sit down, cuddle my pillow and watch some Netflix

    Ideal!

  6. Could I love this guy?

    OK now you're getting carried away. Maintain those positive feelings, but try not to make it into a bigger deal than it needs to be.

  7. That was so amazing, I need to call my BFF right now and give her a play-by-play

    Of course, call them and tell them how it went! Just make sure you don't bore them to death.

  8. I can't believe I shaved for that

    True, but it gave you peace of mind while you were on the date!

  9. Will he ask me out again?

    Unfortunately, all you can do is wait and see. Be patient and try not to go crazy in the meantime though.

  10. Ah shit, there's lipstick on my teeth. I hope that wasn't there for long...

    Happens to us all. If he's a normal guy, it's unlikely he noticed.

  11. I hope he texts me

    If the date went well, he will. Also, there's nothing stopping you from texting first!

  12. Should I text him? Or is that too eager?

    Don't text him ten seconds after you finish the date, but maybe do the next day if you haven't heard anything yet.

  13. I don't know if I like him...

    That's what dates are for, keep dating him and see if any feelings develop.

  14. Fuck this

    A common stage in a woman's grief cycle. Personally, I think it's a great way to keep yourself from becoming too needy. Just make sure you keep these negative thoughts about the relationship to yourself, or it could ruin your chances.

  15. What would my friends think of him?

    Hopefully your friends will be supportive either way. However, if you think he might be a problem, make sure you're dating him for the right reasons.

Alex Langley
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Alex is a History of Art & Philosophy graduate from the illustrious Trinity College, which makes her a natural fit for College Times. She spends Monday to Friday writing smut and her weekends thinking deeply and History of Arting.

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